Though there are many other wonderful contraceptive options to choose from, the Internal (or 'Female') condom is the only barrier method currently available, that empowers women to totally take control of their personal safety (or that of their partners) in terms of both contraception AND Sexually Transmitted Infection! ? For many women around the world, where HIV is prevalent and hard to get treated, the internal condom allows them to be in the drivers seat.
However, many Australians don't even know that these things exist! Which is why we had a give away to allow folks to try them out in exchange for feedback.
Having acknowledged that it looks a bit different, bigger and potentially more noisy, one of the great things about the "female" condom, is that unlike the male condom (which can only be effective on an erect penis), the 'Female' condom can be worn "internally" by anyone - front door or back door.
So in the interest of making this unique, underrated, overlooked and misunderstood sexual health tool inclusive for everyone who might benefit from exploring its practical advantages, we prefer to call it the "Internal" condom, rather than the "Female" condom (even though that's what the packaging says it is)!
WARNING: this video is great, but quite explicit!! So if that's not for you, please don't watch it!
So what are Internal Condoms?
The internal condom is the only recipient-initiated method of protection available for both unintended pregnancy and sexually transmissible infections (STIs).
Just like the more common 'external' condom that is worn on the penis, the internal condom stops sperm from entering the body of the 'receiver' and simultaneously helps to protect both parties from sexually transmitted infections.
The only brand of internal condoms available in Australia are made of a latex free synthetic rubber called nitrile, and are essentially a lightweight, pre-lubricated 'pouch' with flexible rubber rings at each end. One end holds the condom inside the body of the receiver and the other end stays outside of the receiver's body during sex.
Despite their somewhat intimidating appearance, internal condoms actually warm to the body's temperature and kind of 'mould' to where they are placed - which can feel more natural and pleasurable. They are also not tight on the penis and therefore cannot be criticised for dulling sensation like the traditional male condom. And some say that the 'rings' can provide additional internal and external stimulation.
How do you use an internal condom?
Unfortunately all of the existing product instructions assumes that the user will be female with a vagina! But you can likely use your imagination to translate the directions to your individual situation. Some do suggest removing the internal ring for anal penetration though.
How effective are internal condoms?
Like traditional condoms, internal condoms are very effective when used correctly every time - some stats say 95%. But the reality is that 'typical use' of any of the barrier methods falls way short of 'perfect' every time, which brings their effectiveness down considerably when compared to other 'contraceptive' methods (ie, around 80%). But in terms of providing protection from STI's, any method or effort is 100% better than none!
PRO's | CON's |
Protection against both pregnancy & STI's | Insertion can take a little practice |
Gives the 'receiver' the control | Hard to find. Not many retailers stock. |
Male erection is not required | Expensive (average $3 each) |
No latex | Noisy?! |
Outside ring can stimulate clitoris | |
No hormones. No side effects | |
Can be more spontaneous if inserted before sex | |
Not tight on penis & can fit any size | |
Is it just a case of "we don't know what we don't know"?
Family Planning NSW published results of an exploratory study they conducted in 2019 to better understand the views and experiences of the female condom in Australia.
And whilst they found that the use of the internal condom was low, once they actually tried it, many users said they would consider using it again.
If you spend your time underneath, you know you can get on top by taking control. If its not on (or in) then its not on!.
This World Aids Day 1st December 2024, lets give some thought to the millions of people in the world that don't have access to diagnosis, treatment and prevention of HIV. Say NO to irresponsible ejaculation for everyone!.
REFERENCES:
Views and experiences of the female condom in Australia: An exploratory cross-sectional survey of cisgender women Sarah E. Fenwick,Jessica R. Botfield ,Prudence Kidman,Kevin McGeechan,Deborah Bateson. Published: February 19, 2021
The female condom offers benefits the male version doesn't — so why don't we use them? ABC Everyday / Edwina Storie
The female condom: What do Australian women say? Jessica R. Botfield, Sarah Cucuzza,Prudence Kidman,Sarah E. Fenwick,Deborah Bateson, First published: 31 January 2021
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